FRISCO - We've made it clear from the start that Dallas Cowboys star Micah Parsons' odd recent remarks about the "time and work'' that coach Mike McCarthy puts in were obviously not intended to damage the coach. And Parsons is now making that clear as well. But that doesn't mean he's taking responsibility for what he said, calling his critics' interpretation of his comments "outrageous.''
On Sunday, after the 34-6 loss to the Eagles that plunged Dallas to 3-6, Parsons was asked about the future of coach McCarthy in Dallas. Parsons could've chosen a conventional path by simply saying, "We're all in this together'' or something along those lines.
Instead, he launched into a weird and unnecessary monologue about the sympathy he feels for veteran teammates on a losing team, then adding ...
"That's above my pay grade, if Mike coaches again next year ... Mike can leave and go wherever he wants ... You want to win games and do great things with those types of (player) legends who put in more time and work than Mike McCarthy ever did.''
Parsons spent the day Monday first going on social media to argue with people while accusing them of misquoting and misunderstanding him (a valid claim), then meeting with McCarthy ("like men do,'' the coach said) and then finally appearing on his podcast to try to clarify it all.
"I never once threw, or even intended to throw Mike McCarthy under the bus... The question that was asked about here and the Dallas Cowboys, did I see Mike McCarthy in our future? I said, 'That's above my pay grade,'" Parsons explained on "The Edge.''
He's correct. Again, he didn't "intend to throw McCarthy under the bus.'' But the coach ended up in that figurative position anyway. And no where in Micah's podcast explanation does he take the blame for his ridiculous work-ethic-related choice of words.
It is assumed Parsons apologized to his coach in their face-to-face meeting here inside The Star.
"Micah and I had a conversation this morning about it, and we handled those things as men should handle it," said the Cowboys' head coach on Monday. "That wasn't his intent (to insult McCarthy) ...''
What was Parsons' intent? In part ... To show empathy for teammates like Zack Martin, who are about done in Dallas and are going to be going out on a losing note. That's laudable - but it's still strange that Parsons would try to make that point while comparing Martin's effort to McCarthy's.
What else was Parsons' intent? In part ... to be funny and cute and dramatic and quotable.
McCarthy challenge is trying to steer that this marketing-first Cowboys team in a direction that "keeps it about football.''
"We have so much more that we need to focus on and that's really what we talked about throughout the day today," he said. "We've got to keep it about football, bear down on the things we know we need to improve on, build off of some of the things we didn't. … These are some of the things you've got to eliminate from your culture, and conversation brings resolution. I think this is an example of that."