I’m Convinced The Golden Bachelorette’s Joan Vassos & Chock Chapple Are Deceiving Bachelor Nation (They’re Playing Their Relationship Up To Be Less Of A Showmance)

   

The Golden Bachelorette stars Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple have only been public for a few weeks, but I’m already convinced they’re deceiving Bachelor Nation after their showmance was called out for being fake. Joan and Chock’s relationship, which formed over the course of The Golden Bachelorette season 1’s short filming schedule, has pushed Bachelor Nation to question their connection. Though the pair had a relationship that was sweet to watch develop on screen, Bachelor Nation has struggled with the way Chock behaved toward Joan and the rest of The Golden Bachelorette cast throughout the season, as he was isolated.

While Chock’s behavior has been tough for viewers to grasp throughout the season, it’s clear that his behavior wasn’t a red flag for Joan throughout the season and in the aftermath, as she watched the show back. Chock consistently isolated himself from the rest of The Golden Bachelorette cast, focusing on his relationship with Joan even when he wasn’t with her. Though some found this a likable quality, others were concerned that his commitment to her was overwhelming and assumed that he may be love-bombing Joan. While Chock and Joan have been building their relationship, I’m concerned they’re tricking everyone.

The Golden Bachelorette’s Joan & Chock Have Been Updating Bachelor Nation Post-Show

They’ve Been Consistently Posting Online

The Golden Bachelorette's Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple both have slight smirks.

Although The Golden Bachelorette season 1 wasn’t easy on Joan and Chock, who spent their time after the show apart and waited until the season’s end to reveal their romance, the post-season has proven more difficult for the pair. Joan and Chock’s time on screen was only a portion of their relationship, and watching through the lens of The Golden Bachelorette made it seem like there was more going on than met the eye. Joan’s connection with Chock seemed difficult to manage on screen, but it was clearly something that resonated with Joan, as she was happy with her decision.

By the time The Golden Bachelorette season ended, Bachelor Nation understood that Joan was choosing Chock, but struggled to see why she was making that decision. With Joan and Chock’s relationship moving quickly, the pair have shared a lot of content online post-show. Joan has been particularly vocal about her relationship with Chock, explaining on Instagram that she’s been excited to bring Chock into her daily life. As she’s posted more about their relationship, Bachelor Nation has been more and more curious about how genuine their connection is, as it’s been seeming like more of a showmance than a romance.

Bachelor Nation Believes Joan & Chock’s Relationship Could Be A Showmance

Their Romance Doesn’t Seem Genuine

Although Joan and Chock seem to have a real connection, their relationship could be more of a showmance than a romance. Joan, who dated through a group of guys before narrowing things to Chock, was hesitant about her decision as she moved toward the end of the season. While she knew that she had feelings for Chock, she wasn’t exactly sure that she wanted to move forward with the Kansas native as she got closer to the end of the season. Joan’s affinity for Chock was always there, but she struggled to feel confident in choosing him at the end.

Although Joan and Chock finally were able to bring their romance into the public eye, their relationship has surprisingly seemed like a lot less of a genuine romance now that they’re not on TV. Joan and Chock’s romance has seemed like a showmance since the end of The Golden Bachelorette, as the couple has been outwardly sharing more and more about their relationship, making it seem less genuine. Joan’s relationship with Chock has been public fodder for her online persona, which doesn’t always read as genuine to Bachelor Nation. It feels like they’re trying to prove their love is real.

Chock & Joan Have Been Coming Across As Attention Seekers In Their Own Ways

Both Have Some Attention Seeking Tactics

montage of The Golden Bachelorette's Joan vassos and Chock chapple looking intense
 

While Joan has come across as an attention-seeker in her way, sharing a ton of content about her relationship with Chock on social media, there’s been some attention-seeking behavior from both sides of the relationship. Chock’s not immune to using his relationship with Joan for clout, either. While he’s been sharing things online, Chock has also been using his influence on Joan, pushing her to be interested in having more of a public life. While Joan had shown resistance to having a live TV wedding in the past, she may be opening up to the idea because of Chock’s interest.

Are Joan & Chock Trying To Convince Bachelor Nation Their Showmance Is Real?

They’re Doing More So They Seem More Legitimate

Although Joan and Chock are doing everything they can to prove their relationship is a genuine one, it feels more to me like the pair are trying to disguise their showmance as a real romance. Joan’s consistent online posts along with Chock’s interest in continuing to be on screen and in public makes it clear that the pair want to be seen in public, which bodes more for their relationship being a showmance than a romance. I think The Golden Bachelorette pair are pushing their relationship for clout, trying to convince viewers they’re in a loving relationship, not a showmance.