“When I was actually starting to develop the character, I realized, if you look at all these characters, Abby’s not that different from a lot of the other characters in that world,” Dever told The Hollywood Reporter. “Grief is such an awful feeling… and you’d do anything to not feel that way anymore.” Even more poignant: Dever filmed Joel’s death scene just days after her own mother’s funeral. “All of the cast and crew showed up to support me,” she said. “Everyone treated me with such kindness and gave me such grace during that time.”
According to Dever, Pascal was the ideal scene partner for Joel’s harrowing death. “I’ve never felt so carried by another actor in my life,” she said. “We were really supporting each other… it was such a pivotal moment for both of these characters.”
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She also appreciated Pascal’s post-premiere support, especially after backlash from some fans. “He posted behind-the-scenes photos as if to remind people this is fiction,” she noted, and after Joel’s death and a traumatic first encounter with Ellie, The Last of Us Season 3 is poised to put Abby front and center — and Dever is already sounding the alarm.
With the emotional weight of her mother’s passing, the physical intensity of the shoot, and the complex arc of a character like Abby, Dever’s performance in The Last of Us is already earning praise as one of the best of her career. And by all accounts, the hardest part is still to come.